As a woman, first born, wife (take your pick), I’ve struggled with the issue of being in control.  I hate to use the term “control freak”, but at times I’ve owned that title.  Out of self-defense, I developed my binary theory some years ago (and still use it to this day).  If you’re interested in knowing more, check out “How the Binary Theory Saved My Life*” under “Recent Musings”.   (*Actually it didn’t save my life, but I love those dramatic titles.)  This is dedicated to all those control freaks out there (and I know you are).